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HOW TO FLIRT WITH WOMEN OVER TEXT ๐Ÿ“ฑ๐Ÿ˜

HOW TO FLIRT WITH WOMEN OVER TEXT ๐Ÿ“ฑ๐Ÿ˜


Hello my wonderful friend! In today’s
video we’re going to be talking about how to flirt with women over text. If
you’ve been wondering how to flirt with girls, texting can be a really really
awesome tool. In many ways flirting can actually be easier over text, so knowing
these texting tips will have you flirting and texting like a pro. I have
five texting tips for you that will help you know how to text a girl and impress
her and attract her and make the whole process really fun. But before we do that,
if this is your first time watching be sure to subscribe and ring that
notification bell. My name is Melannie, I’m a dating coach for Christian men. I help
men find and attracted the girl of your dreams, so be sure to subscribe and ring
that bell so you don’t miss any of the amazing videos I have coming. So, let’s
talk about flirting. Um, I have to be honest with you guys, flirting is one of
my favorite things to do and one of my favorite things to talk about. Flirting
is so fun, I mean really, let’s be honest. There are a lot of people who are
afraid that flirting is frivolous or it just “why do it, it’s a waste of
time.” But, research actually shows that there are a lot of benefits to flirting,
some of which are actually health benefits which is really interesting, but
it’s a really good way to, if you’re in a relationship, to make the relationship
even better, and if you’re not in a relationship it’s a really good way to
help you get into a relationship. So it’s an incredibly good skill no matter what
stage of a relationship you are at. Research shows that flirting actually
creates feel-good chemicals in us and in the person we are flirting with, and that
obviously leaves us feeling good. Now, I have said it before and I’m sure I will
say it again because it’s so important, So be sure to
pay attention. People, like people, who make them feel good. Period. We are
attracted to people who leave us feeling good, and that’s one of the benefits of
flirting. So, if you want to attract a girl, knowing how to flirt is a huge
lifesaver. Now these tips I’m about to give you are obviously for texting, but
they also apply to online chats and things like that as well. Tip number one
when it comes to how to flirt with a woman over text, is keep it playful, keep
it light, keep it fun. It’s really easy when you are feeling self-conscious and
nervous to be kind of serious or try to say something like
really impressive, that completely kills flirting. Flirting by nature is
playful and fun and it involves using a sense of humor and teasing each other
and just keeping things really really light-hearted. One of the best ways to
ruin a really good flirt session is to just keep it too serious or a little bit
of a downer or something. If you want to really have a good flirt session, keep it fun
and keep it playful, a little bit silly. You don’t want to be too silly and goofy
and like immature, but you want to be light-hearted and fun. This is a fun
process. The whole point of flirting is for you both to feel good. So you don’t
want to scare her away by being too professional or too grave, instead you
want to keep it casual and fun and light-hearted. Using a healthy sense of
humor is one of the best tools you can have. Now one thing that will help you
with that is actually tip number two, which is use emojis. Girls like emojis,
They just do. Texting and online chatting and things, they have some benefits that
can really help us with flirting, but they also have some drawbacks. And some
of those drawbacks are, you’re looking at words, you don’t see the person’s face.
And so it can be so much harder to get your point across. You can say
something silly, but it could not be taken silly or vice versa or whatever it
is. So having emojis really goes a long way to helping you express yourself and
helps it be a little flirtatious and teasing and fun.
An emoji is a visual thing, it helps her understand it, and the truth is,
girls just tend to really like emojis. Now, you don’t want to overdo it. Okay?
Don’t go like all emoji crazy on her or she’ll go “woah! This guy is needy and
crazy.” You don’t want to overdo it, you want to fit them in when they’re
appropriate. But, some of the best emojis for you to use are the smiley face with
the blushing cheeks, that one’s like extremely happy and “you make me so happy
and I blush a little bit because you’re cute.” So that’s a really good one.
Another good one to include is the laughing face with the tears rolling
down your cheeks. That one lets her know “this is a joke, I’m keeping it light and
keeping it playful. We’re teasing and being fun.” Another one,
and perhaps in my personal favorite, is the smirk face. When used right, this one
can be very flirtatious, because it’s you know, kind of hinting a little
bit, but you know not quite saying it. A really good example of using
the smirk emoji, is maybe if you say “hey! So did you miss me? *smirk*” That’s
flirtatious and fun. Another really good emoji is just the wink emoji. Maybe
you give her a compliment and a wink. That’s like “hey, I’m flirting.” And just
kind of reinforces yes, I was flirting and I meant that in a flirtatious
fun way. Now a good example of this would be, let’s pretend you happen to know that
this girl likes a specific TV show and you’ve found like a really funny meme
online, maybe you even did a quick google search because you wanted to text her.
You found this funny meme, you send it to her and you say “I saw this and I thought
of you.” Period. And you just leave it at that.
That is so emotionless and so lifeless and she doesn’t really know
what you’re thinking about this. If instead you said “hey, I saw this and I
thought of you!” Maybe an exclamation point, maybe not, and then the happy face
with the blushing cheeks. That’s like “Oh my goodness I thought of you and I
thought you’d like this! :)” Or you could do a wink or you could do a smirk or
whatever it is. That is flirtatious and fun and playful. Word of caution though,
there are two specific emojis I want you to be very very careful about using, and
they are the kissy face emoji, you know that one, and the heart eye emoji. In a
private conversation, if you use these emojis, it’s basically like saying I want
to kiss your face. Okay? And unless you’re in a relationship with
this girl, that is going to scare her, it’s gonna freak her out. Even if she’s
attracted to you she’s gonna be like “whoa he’s coming on too strong and too
aggressively.” So don’t use those emojis unless you are actually in a
relationship and you have an understanding. Just, you know, word of
warning. Bottom line, emojis are your friend,
start using them. Tip number three is to ask her questions. There are so many
reasons asking questions is a good move. As humans we like to talk about
ourselves, so it sets us at ease and it makes her feel important and helps you
guys get to know each other. Another reason, is women really like to
feel pursued. If you saw this video you know that women just adore being pursued,
it makes us feel attractive and wanted and more feminine and helps us see you
in a more masculine light. If you haven’t seen that video, there’s a link in the
description below, be sure to check that out. But asking her questions helps her
feel pursued and like you are interested in her. Nothing makes a girl feel more
amazing than getting a text from that really cute guy. If you need some ideas
for some questions you could ask, be sure to check out this video. That one is
specifically on first dates, but the truth is the questions are the same
whether you’re on a first date or you’re just texting each other.
So be sure to check that one out, there’s a link in the description for that as well.
Now this does not mean you have to text her all day long, but just text her,
ask her some questions. This will also help you guys get to know each other
better, get you to that first date if you’re not there yet. It helps you get to
know each other better and make sure that you want to continue to see each
other and continue to text each other, or if maybe you just don’t have anything in
common and you want to move on. Speaking of questions, I’ve got one for you. What
do you find the most intimidating about flirting with a girl. What do you find to
be your biggest obstacle? Let me know in the comments below so I can make a video
on it to help you guys out with this. And, how to flirt with women over text tip
number four is to compliment her. This is one of the best tools when it comes to
flirting, is to compliment. Every person on this planet likes a compliment, and
it makes us feel better. Again, if she feels good she’s going to be more
attracted to you. And if she likes you, knowing that you like her and that you
think she’s pretty and stuff, is going to mean a ton to her and help her like you
even more. Now, you can certainly tell her she’s beautiful, she’s pretty, you love
her smile, you love her hair, you love the way she dresses, whatever it is. You can
definitely compliment her on how she looks, but one thing that’s often
overlooked is to compliment her on personality traits, who she is
things she’s good at. Yes, she wants to know that you think she’s pretty and
hearing that from you is going to mean so much to her,
but it means as much or even more to know she’s more to you than just a
pretty face, to know that you think she’s smart or you think she’s talented or you
love the way she cooks or the way she laughs or the way she helps you smile or
how kind she is. Those are things that really mean a lot to her too. So don’t be
afraid to kind of step out of the status quo “oh my goodness you’re so gorgeous.”
Yes, tell her that, she wants to hear that. But step outside of that too.
Complimenting over text is actually a really good tool because, let’s face it,
sometimes trying to compliment each other in person can be terrifying, or you
don’t want it to come across wrong or you’re afraid to sound awkward or
whatever it is. And so starting to do that a little bit over text,
with maybe that smirky face “oh my goodness you I love the way you cook.
Those cookies are so good! *smirk*” Or the happy face with the blushed cheeks,
whatever your style is. Doing it over text can help you warm up and feel more
comfortable about doing it, and then be able to do it in person much more
confidently. And as you compliment her there’s a really good chance she’ll
start complimenting you back, which let’s face it, that’s just play fun. Now we are
to our last tip, and that is, do not be overly aggressive and needy. Don’t feel
like you have to text her all day long and expect her to text you all day long
and get needy about it. I had a guy once who was actually really attractive,
and I enjoyed texting him, but I work, and so I can’t text 24/7.
He was also coming on really really aggressive and really trying to
push things for really fast and I was uncomfortable as that. So I was trying to
create some healthy space, keep my head on straight, and he would get so
upset if I didn’t text him back. And he would start thinking I hated him and it
turned into this big drama thing. Don’t do that. She is a person with a
life and adult women, we have things to do, we can’t just sit around in text all
day like in high school. So don’t be too aggressive and too needy, that will scare her away very quickly. Remember, flirting is not a lifetime
commitment, it is really just having fun getting to know someone, being playful
with each other and seeing if you like each other enough to start dating, start
seeing each other and potentially have a relationship. If instead of being needy
and aggressive you leave her feeling good about the whole flirting experience,
that can help you get to know her better, help you decide if this is your dream
relationship and help you guys pursue it. Thank you so much for watching! Now that
you know some good flirting tips, how would you like to know how to make a
woman’s heart just melt? The things that make her crazy about you? I’ve put
together a guide for you. 17 Traits Christian Women Want Most in a Man. All
you have to do is check out the link in the description below, it will ask you
for your name in your email, as soon as you enter that information I will
send this guide your way. And as a special bonus, when you sign up for that
you will also get access to How to Get The Girl, my free training. You’re not
gonna want to miss it, check out the link in the description below. If you enjoyed
what you saw be sure to give me a big thumbs up. And if you have a friend who’s
struggling knowing how to flirt with a cute girl be sure to share this with him.
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about what else you want to learn about flirting with girls.
Thanks again my amazing friend and have an amazing day! [blooper beep]
I like flirting! Flirting is fun! Or even help you just continue to get to know
each other, make sure that… [pause] You know each other. [laughter]

6 thoughts on “HOW TO FLIRT WITH WOMEN OVER TEXT ๐Ÿ“ฑ๐Ÿ˜”

  1. Thanks for watching! Question of the Day: What do you find the most intimidating about flirting with women? ๐Ÿค”
    Hereโ€™s a link to 17 Traits Women Want MOST in a Man – https://coachmelannie.com/free-guide-how-to-find-and-attract-your-dream-girl-5-steps-to-success/

  2. It's all in the eyes ๐Ÿ˜ hehe ๐Ÿ˜˜ I have a master's degree in flirting in the YouTube comments ๐Ÿ˜

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